Writer’s Block

We all hit that time when we just can’t write about anything at a given time. You must be thinking, “uh oh, looks like my brain hit a black racing flag and its headed for the pitstop”. That being said, our brain is like a high performance racing car. Like all racing cars it could also experience problems and setbacks along the way. No race car is exempt from a low fuel supply or worn out tires just like our brain is not exempt from things that would possibly slow down, or possibly even damage it. How do we do a “tire change” with our brain? Here are some examples to refresh our creative and logical functions.

First of all, try working at a different place. If you have a laptop, go to a place like a park or a rooftop of a building. New information always stimulates our brain to be more active. Not only does it refresh our minds, but it also gives us more ideas to possibly inspire us. Another idea is to work at intervals. If you have been working for, say, an hour, always make sure that you have a 5-10 minute break for each or that you work. This gives your mind time to refresh for another hour of working. This method buys you more time before stress seeps in and blocks your creativity and keeps you working like a well oiled machine. Lastly, keep reading! Sometimes people recycle the same thoughts and words over and over again until they exhaust the ways to use it. Read as much as you and when you see a word you don’t understand, look it up and start using it.

Writer’s block doesn’t only affect writers. It can affect all of us whenever we do creative work like drawing, writing songs and so on. Just learn to keep your mind running like an efficient F-1 engine and you’ll have no problems reaching the checkered flag.

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X And Y

When you look around, do you feel that you are placed in a position higher or lower than the people next to you? It’s funny because there are some people who try to impose upon us that they’re better or that we’re less than them. This can be seen everywhere. For example, there are times when you get laughed at for listening to a certain type of music or watching a certain type of TV show. And for extremities, other people ridicule depending on the clothes that they wear or the nationality they represent. Should the American flag cover and crumple others?

Discrimination is everywhere. It’s in our schools, our communities even our homes. Everyday we are subject to it whether subtle or explicit. Some people like to believe they are normal people with normal jobs and anyone who’s different from them isn’t. What would we tell them when they see people less than them? Should we stick around and do nothing? It has been said that for evil to succeed it is enough for good people to do nothing. It’s sad that these ‘good people’ not only work in apathy, but many even add to the fray.

Is X greater than Y? Maybe not always but of course, X and Y are never equal. Who is greater shouldn’t be an issue. If you’re from another country and you see the American Flag, you think of how America seems to be better than everyone else. And if you do that to yourself, then it is not America that is at fault. Same goes for Americans looking at other countries as different. Seeing a Chinese flag and thinking of cheap underpaid laborers instead of a rich cultural heritage is no worse than thinking badly of a friend or neighbor that has been there ever since.

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A Very Colorful College Life

Our college life experiences vary like world flags and their variances. Sometimes we live the best years of our lives in college. For others, it’s nothing but a mental and social cesspool of some sorts where you either sink or swim. Its either you’re one of those who sit in the background doing well in their studies, or becoming popular by either making the team, or rooting for the team with those miniature college flags and pompoms.

Some people have so much fun in college that they never want to leave. They don’t want to enter the jungle of adult life. They view college as some sort of Neverland where people need not grow old. It’s funny because college should be the launching pad for adult life not a vortex to be stuck in for eternity. Other people hate their college lives enough to just stop and go work for minimum wage.

However high or low we feel during college, in the end it only adds to the experience of it all. There are times where we would just want to turn back the clock and relive college over again. Maybe to rectify mistakes, do more for academics and the like. For those who are still in college reading this, it’s best to make most out of it. Many regret not coloring their college lives. After graduation and entering a professional life, experiences start to plateau and activities are restricted by newer obligations to your independence or your family. Sometimes it just feels right to have something to look back upon no matter how silly, stupid, boring or dark the past may be.

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A Very Colorful College Life

Our college life experiences vary like world flags and their variances. Sometimes we live the best years of our lives in college. For others, it’s nothing but a mental and social cesspool of some sorts where you either sink or swim. Its either you’re one of those who sit in the background doing well in their studies, or becoming popular by either making the team, or rooting for the team with those miniature college flags and pompoms.

Some people have so much fun in college that they never want to leave. They don’t want to enter the jungle of adult life. They view college as some sort of Neverland where people need not grow old. It’s funny because college should be the launching pad for adult life not a vortex to be stuck in for eternity. Other people hate their college lives enough to just stop and go work for minimum wage.

However high or low we feel during college, in the end it only adds to the experience of it all. There are times where we would just want to turn back the clock and relive college over again. Maybe to rectify mistakes, do more for academics and the like. For those who are still in college reading this, it’s best to make most out of it. Many regret not coloring their college lives. After graduation and entering a professional life, experiences start to plateau and activities are restricted by newer obligations to your independence or your family. Sometimes it just feels right to have something to look back upon no matter how silly, stupid, boring or dark the past may be.

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Everyone Loves a Sale

There is just something so fulfilling about having new things. And what’s more fulfilling is when these things come in half their prices! Yes, I’m talking about the 9th world wonder: The Sale.

When we see the word “sale” draped in attention flags all over our favorite shopping mall or our well-loved exclusive boutique, our eyes mimic meteor showers. This is especially true if you actually saved up to buy something you so desire, that you feel like your life goal is to own those things. This is because a sale advertises EASY ownership, and ownership is one of man’s emotional needs. Remember how we always wanted “security” and “belongingness”? Well, these things are hooked onto plain ownership. We feel SECURE when something BELONGS to us.

Be on the look for seasonal sales and anniversary sales. This comes extremely handy for specialty stores. There are times when they just needed more closet space for a fresher collection and so they do clearance sales. Sometimes, they also hit a yearly inventory revamping so they also do clearance sales. Clearance sales are the best of them all because of the fact that the store’s goal is just to empty their warehouses. Usually the best ones get sold in the beginning anyway. If you don’t mind wearing what was hot last season, then this works for you.

However, don’t wave your bills out like a racing flag just yet. Remember to always put a limit to your shopping. Remember “Confessions of a Shopaholic”? Shopping ruined the protagonist’s love life, career, friendships and even family relationships. Money is indeed a very important resource and just buy what you need, even if it’s on sale.

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Concerts: A Musical Experience

Going to a concert is the best way to experience music. Most of us are comfortable sitting at home with our home entertainment systems. Some are satisfied with listening to their favorite bands and artists on their mp3 players. They still achieve the point of listening to music in general much like how a backrub makes us feel better after work. However, going to concert is a whole different experience. It equates to a full body massage which is heaps better than a measly backrub.

When in concerts, you can’t just stay in one place. Open air concerts have booths, camping grounds and food stations which are usually marked by twirler flags. Artists and bands usually perform one after the other so sometimes there is no time to just sit down. You might also come across hardcore fans carrying huge message flags, trying to catch the attention of the artists or the cameras. Some concerts actually have more than one stage so you might find yourself traveling from one place to another. What’s more is that you could meet hundreds of people who share the same tastes or maybe the same passions with music as you do.

Think of music as a stream. You can buy bottled water instead of having to go to the stream to drink. But sometimes we learn to appreciate the water more by traveling and drinking from the stream itself. Music works the same way and going to a concert is the most fulfilling and active way to enjoy music.

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How To Have a Rockin’ Family Reunion

Family reunions are great places to be when they are pulled off impressively. Of course, it is a big event and events that involve bringing a lot of SPECIFIC people together can cause the event manager a lot of undue stress. Sure, technology helps in keeping things on the right track but there’s nothing like knowing the basics of organizing a rocking family reunion.

Plan early. Nothing beats foresight in events management. You should come up with a list of the things you need for the event and conceptualize in rich detail how exactly the event is intended to unfold. This rule comes in handy in keeping order and consistency in the planning. Then hand out the invitations and advertisements. To find lost relatives, spread street banners over the city or country!

Have a focal event. Just like the couple’s first dance on a wedding reception or the blowing of candles at a posh birthday celebration, the family reunion should also have a focal event. It is advised to use things which are of interest with the family. If you’re into singing, have a karaoke night. If you’re a family of doctors then have a silly parlor game that doctors can appreciate. This event should be something that keeps boredom away, as that is the enemy of ANY coordinated event.

Feel the exclusivity. As what was mentioned in the earlier paragraph, SPECIFIC people are supposed to come. Make the party exclusive to ONLY RELATIVES and extract your theme from there. Have a local dish that all of you love, have a custom made family crest flag hanging by the gate, have a communal T shirt design and distribute them early so that everybody can wear them on the party.

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The Ideal Coming Out Plan

For a lot of homosexuals, coming out is the hardest thing to do. You cannot expect every homosexual to wave their flamboyance or rashness like a twirler flag. Well, unless you are a drag queen, or a hard butch, that is. You cannot seriously be closet if you already dress and behave excessively like the opposite sex. Surely you are afraid of the scandal that it might cause, especially if you were way deep in the closet and even your closest friends don’t know about your gender preference.

However, there are a lot of ways to come out properly. Surely you are afraid of the scandal that it might cause, especially if you were way deep in the closet and even your closest friends don’t know about your gender preference.

First, mentally prepare yourself to practically ALL kinds of reactions. This will help you in getting over reactions which you didn’t appreciate at all. Second, tell your closest friends first. And we mean it! Start telling the closest one, then the next closest one, and so on. Remember that in addition to you having to accept who you are, there is also a set of people whose acceptance matters to you. Third, have a very strong support system. Have a set of people who love you unconditionally and keep them near you.

So go out there and wave your pride flag like crazy. There’s nothing that feels better than being able to show who you really are and love who you intend to love.

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The Evil in Beauty Pageants

The kid in us was always told by her older sister that the more we spend time obsessing over physical beauty, the more we will stress ourselves out and end up losing confidence rather than supposedly gaining it from looking good. Well, nobody’s blaming anyone, being beautiful has a lot of rewards. From freebies to admiring looks, from special treatment to actually ending up with a royal, beauty has acquired a high place in society.

This is the reason why everyone wants beauty as a title. More than ninety five percent of girls all over the world had once dreamed of becoming a beauty titlist. Who doesn’t want their banners and state flags scattered all over the country with their fully made up faces? Who doesn’t want all the cheers, the product endorsements, the title of being a “queen”? The truth is, behind all the glitz and glamor, beauty pageants destroy the idea of beauty itself.

Since they use all too much the word beauty, the word itself gains on a meaning that is full of standards and limits. Beauty pageants start with the screening process, where “beauty” is composed of a complete set of teeth, good skin, a weight that doesn’t go past 140 lbs., long legs, nice hair, etc. In fact, they’re not that strict in checking about eating disorders! At this stage beauty is being defined already. In the end, no matter how much the beauty queens defend pageants by saying they have the question and answer portion anyway, the time spent in filtering the non-beautiful from the beautiful just speaks of society’s shallow understanding about beauty.

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The Evil in Beauty Pageants

The kid in us was always told by her older sister that the more we spend time obsessing over physical beauty, the more we will stress ourselves out and end up losing confidence rather than supposedly gaining it from looking good. Well, nobody’s blaming anyone, being beautiful has a lot of rewards. From freebies to admiring looks, from special treatment to actually ending up with a royal, beauty has acquired a high place in society.

This is the reason why everyone wants beauty as a title. More than ninety five percent of girls all over the world had once dreamed of becoming a beauty titlist. Who doesn’t want their banners and state flags scattered all over the country with their fully made up faces? Who doesn’t want all the cheers, the product endorsements, the title of being a “queen”? The truth is, behind all the glitz and glamor, beauty pageants destroy the idea of beauty itself.

Since they use all too much the word beauty, the word itself gains on a meaning that is full of standards and limits. Beauty pageants start with the screening process, where “beauty” is composed of a complete set of teeth, good skin, a weight that doesn’t go past 140 lbs., long legs, nice hair, etc. In fact, they’re not that strict in checking about eating disorders! At this stage beauty is being defined already. In the end, no matter how much the beauty queens defend pageants by saying they have the question and answer portion anyway, the time spent in filtering the non-beautiful from the beautiful just speaks of society’s shallow understanding about beauty.

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