NorthStar Flags

Once we are in a steady relationship with a mate whom we feel like spending forever with, we think that we are ready to tell him or her everything. From the biggest deals like our career plans to the smallest ones like what you think of white gold as opposed to silver, we tend to share these things with our partners because we have high confidence in them.

However, how about how you spend your money? Well, the truth? Hold your horses and your attention flags, the answer is no.

For as long as you don’t share just one account with your husband or your boyfriend, he doesn’t need to know what you spend your money with. The thing is, for men, there are a lot of things that women buy that they feel to be useless for example, another pair of shoes or jewelry. But these things are more than just material to us, isn’t it? They also make us feel better and feel beautiful, which in turn affects how we carry ourselves in front of other people.

So keep you piehole shut about how much your Dorothy Perkins dress really costs, no matter how good it looks on you, he says. And just imagine how much he spends on gadgets, right? For sure you can buy a couple of dresses and get a month long manicure maintenance with the latest LCD TV he eyes.

There are other things to fight about, like opposing political flags or religion. But hey, they need not be big issues.

Once we are in a steady relationship with a mate whom we feel like spending forever with, we think that we are ready to tell him or her everything. From the biggest deals like our career plans to the smallest ones like what you think of white gold as opposed to silver, we tend to share these things with our partners because we have high confidence in them.

However, how about how you spend your money? Well, the truth? Hold your horses and your attention flags, the answer is no.

For as long as you don’t share just one account with your husband or your boyfriend, he doesn’t need to know what you spend your money with. The thing is, for men, there are a lot of things that women buy that they feel to be useless for example, another pair of shoes or jewelry. But these things are more than just material to us, isn’t it? They also make us feel better and feel beautiful, which in turn affects how we carry ourselves in front of other people.

So keep you piehole shut about how much your Dorothy Perkins dress really costs, no matter how good it looks on you, he says. And just imagine how much he spends on gadgets, right? For sure you can buy a couple of dresses and get a month long manicure maintenance with the latest LCD TV he eyes.

There are other things to fight about, like opposing political flags or religion. But hey, they need not be big issues.

There are just times in work when we seriously believe that we are working too hard for something that pays too low, or at least, not the amount we have in mind. Whenever you think of a salary increase, do you just shake your head and say “long overdue” softly? Or do you submit to intense fury, that before the warning flags show up, you already feel like throwing all your thinks outside the office window?

Once you are in this point of certainty, then there is no better time to speak but NOW. Or else your productivity in your work and your enthusiasm over life will only go down in a spiral abyss. It’s simple, you feel like you’re robbed, you’re not incentivized to go the extra mile, dissatisfied and this will greatly affect your moral.

The best way to go is to ask for a raise (the operative word is ask, not demand) and be armed with the facts to back up. When you come knocking at your boss’ door, be sure that you are ready with real facts (or yes, documents) that you are overqualified for the work you’re doing and that you have satisfied a lot of clients. Also, be armed with a realistic raise percentage. 10-15 percent is something that most bosses can easily negotiate with.

So when you come traipsing in that raise idea, bring those imaginary pride flags with you and keep your head held up high. If your boss says no, know your worth and consider other career options.

Surely you have experienced some partying in your life. You might end up the night sober, drunk, totally drugged or even bored. However you spend it, there is no doubt that partying remains to be one of the best things to do on a weekend night.

On the other side of this partying is the organizing part. And surely, there was at least one time in your life where you are tasked to organize a party. Now, this process may seem very tiring for you but all you have to do to keep your party memorable are these three things:

Secure early. Secure the when, where and who of your party. Give out your invitations early and try to get the feel of the place at your intended party time. If you can, check the weather also. You would want everything to work according to plan, after all. Pick a time and place that is most convenient to the key people in your party.

Pick a theme. To make a party difficult to forget and something very nice to look forward to, pick a unique theme. You can get to be as wild as “frat party” for your party or as tame as
‘French brunch’ or as fun as ‘United Nations’, with state flags all around.

Clean everything. If you are holding a party in your home, make sure that everything is clean. From your custom table runners to your telephone table, make a good impression by getting rid of the dust everywhere.